It’s hard sometimes to let go of his face. Just how he smelled, the way he viewed you from over the sofa. But living with his ghost will still only prevent you from turning the page on this phase of your life. Like all good tales, every chapter is only the accumulation to a fresh and wonderful turn of events.
It’s safe to say that most humans are like clay. The longer we’re in a certain kind of atmosphere, the harder it is for all of us to use of that form and be loose again. When we’re in a romantic relationship – long or short – we get used to having him around. He grew on us, we don’t understand how, but he damn well do. Saying goodbye is like cutting off a string of ourselves, but guess what, on the finish of that string is a weight. Once you slice it off, you’ll be freer than you think.
Life isn’t a book, but instead a collection of brief stories. Every stage has a life of its – a newbie, middle, and an end. It’s difficult to come quickly to grips when it’s around, but if there’s one thing that will provide you with peace of mind, it’s that the end is only the beginning of a new story. But you’ll never reach it until you mourn the previous one.
When we hold onto days gone by, our current mental state becomes imbalanced. Unless the anchor is loose, a ship will never tripped to sea. Consider it. The moment you experienced when reading the first term of this sentence is now in the past. Everything we live, inhale and feel is because what’s been. A decision to carry on or even to release makes all the difference of who we are right now. So when we’re too active living in days gone by, though we might see the horizon ahead, we’ll never have the ability to make the trip.
You ever heard the quote “Tis easier to have love and lost than to never have loved at all..?” I eventually agree. However in all respect, it’s easier to learn from reduction than won’t love again.
We can’t change the past no matter how hard we try, but we can figure out how to live with it. Our destiny isn’t relied on where we’ve come from, but who we are today. The funny thing about love is that it’s never an one-time thing unless you decide for it to be so.
If we want to truly nourish every phase we’re at in life, we need to understand the bigger picture. The key reason why we’re in this particular phase in the first place is because the previous you have brought us here. Though it could feel like it was a knock-down, that’s not what your new fate is. If you don’t get right up from the dirt, dust yourself off and arranged your eye on the new route ahead, you’ll finish up walking in circles. Soon you’ll allow history to repeat itself.
People come and go from our lives for a reason. Not everyone we thought was going to maintain it permanently will be. New faces come in and old faces disappear. There is nothing sprung upon us with the only real purpose of getting us down. We choose to achieve that. Everything has a lesson, an objective, grounds. Embrace your past encounters as a grasp class and move forward a new, more enlightened person.